Looong Laaasting .....

On a lazy sunny day - was going through  blogs....a post among them deals with relationship - bonding - bonding a strong relation etc etc -
many questions raised in my little brain -

What keep a relation Strong ???

What makes people hang on for each other  life long???

What makes a person feel other person can be his/her mate ???

In quoting a relation I pick up all kinds -


Wife - husband - How can one decide - this person suits me as Life Partner - As in movies do we also have any signs when we see him/her??? వాన పడటం , పూలు రాలటం , some unique sign ;)
Friends - What makes this bond of friend ship ... Some stay for a while .. Some stay for long time and some we can never think of leaving them.
relatives - though we can't chose them, the bondage between some ppl is beyond words...
siblings - నూర్గురు సోదరులున్న కురవుల కన్న పంచ పాండవులే మిన్న కదా !!!

what makes a relation strong and what breaks a relation ???

can we build a strong relation creating just good opinions with all lies - వంద అపద్దాలు చెప్పి ఐన ఒక పెళ్లి చెయ్యమన్నారు పెద్దలు .. కాని ఈ కాలం లో  -  girls are competing with boys in every field... Every one wants to be Independent ... everybody have their own opinions , impressions, likes and dislikes... - still this age old principle stay good...???
అదే పెద్దలు మరి దేనికైనా పునాది నమ్మకం అని కూడా చెప్పారు  కదా ... !!!


I believe second than first - Trust is the Standing pillar for any relation to stay strong for life long .. 
The day that is lost - you have lost the person even ....  
It doesn't matter you know the person for one year or 10 years .. but once you come to know that the person has given you false impressions hiding the true self -  not even a day it takes for that relation to break.
Share your thoughts with your loved ones - share your true thoughts - sharing and caring makes a strong bondage grow. Give a true impression of yours for any one you want to be with , you want to make friendship with , you want to share your life with . Don't ever create false impression... though you may succeed to gain other person, it will not stand strong in long run. Positive alwaz dominates. Truth alwaz excels.. If you truly needs other person try to understand the person and get along with them but not with false impressions... A good relationship between two people does depend on good understanding between them and it also depends on how better they avoid  misunderstandings...
When you build a relation with trust, it stays so strong that even if some small miss-understandings rise between people, it erases them  forgiving those small things.(when you do not have trust  - even small things seems to be big enough,  far from the scope to forgive the other person)
So...  its very simple to have life long relation ships ..Be true to yourself and to ones you want to be with.. Don't expect anything from others , alwaz try to give and spread love - u may be thinking I haven't mentioned LOVE which is basic thing - I just didn't mention as it is basic and common, without LOVE there is no point to discuss about Relationship at all :)