Teenage ....

All along life at every stage we keep on thinking , this period is crucial for me to go heights in LIFE.

BUT - among all stages TEENAGE is the most crucial time for every person... teenage is filled with Joy, Excitement  Full Enthu, Confusions , assumptions....... This is the deciding time whether he goes heights or stand still...This is the most confusing stage where - he makes many assumptions for himself ... live in dreams about coming life.. At this stage if he can balance his life and take correct path  he can MASTER his life else.......the other way...


 Now a days we hear a lot..... a girl committed suicide in hostel room - girl and boy took poison and are in critical stage - girl killed by boy as she dint accept his love... many many many as such .....   Most of the ppl in news are teenagers....


should we die ourselves (committing suicide) if we fail in LOVE?? should we kill other person if she/he doesn't accept our love... Why don't we think about our parents and their love for us before doing such nasty acts??? Don't they love us.. Parents Love is Unconditional ,,,,without any expectations .. without any boundaries.... endless... If we think for a while about them may be we can avoid most of our mischievous deeds..... 


I am not against LOVE .. but I am just worried about innocent ppl who take hasty decisions for LOVE and spoil their life... Definitively LOVE is very important part in our LIVES..its highly impossible to survive without LOVE... But it doesn't mean we have to get LOVE from opposite sex and torture them to give us the same. We get LOVE from our parents, We learn to LOVE from them ... We get LOVE from our friends, We Learn to spread LOVE through them... We Get LOVE from our soul mate , we know it lasts for ever and ever..... 


There are many other things apart from LOVE which we need to achieve and accomplish... Please do not spoil your life with all stupid confusions on love and assuming you cant stay with out that single persons love..... Just think about your people when you take any hasty decision.... once you think about your people ,, their thought gives you strength and make you realize its not you but the other person is not lucky  to have you.... Even if you don't accept or you don't like , things will not stop once its decided to happen that way. Be positive, think in a better way and improve yourself to be a better person in society, then you need not go for anyone... everyone will follow you on your path.... 


THINK BETTER, BE THE BEST :) Make your Teenage a nice MEMORY but not a NIGHTMARE in your LIFE.... Stay HAPPY - stay COOL...


PS : I am not gr8 pandit to advise people. I just want to pen down my view... If you like it take it as advise else just pass away the article to someone else... thank u for your time :) 

School Days Memories....

Ramya , pramod and myself were playing with bhagat and suddenly pramod questioned me "When will bhagat start to identify people and remember things??" As I answered him , ramya and myself started discussing what all we remember from our child hood starting from kindergarten.... and that discussion ended as a post in my blog :) 


I remember few things from my kindergarten level...  childhood friends, school group photographs, bunking school without mom's notice, exhibition preparations, anniversary celebrations, silly fights between friends, stupid arguments with classmates, study hours, extra classes etc etc...  those days were like little busy , more fun - entertainment.




In my 2nd standard (studying in L.E.M School ) I guess, my mom left me in school and she came back home and was busy in her house hold activities as usual ...  My grand father went and asked her why is it holiday for me??? She was a bit shocked at that question and replied saying, it was not a holiday and she dropped me in school as well ... Grand father was more surprised and told her.. How is it possible??? Lakshmi is sleeping in my room !!!!!!!!   (I came back home soon after my mother left from school and slept with my grand father with out saying anything... He thought it was holiday for me and so only I returned from school :) ) Other time I left school early, came home , and was eating close up tooth paste hiding under my grannies bed :) I even used to eat slate pencils a lot that time :) 

That was the stage when we were sooo innocent, we believe everyone, we play with everyone, we do what ever we want to do  and enjoy life. we have fun and games... (అల్లరి చేసిన కూడా ముద్దులే ముద్దులు :) )

Later I was moved to S.V.B.K school, where they give same importance to studies as well as extra curricular activities.  I was joined in school dance troupe and used to perform in school anniversary programs. we used to have exhibition every year, we need to prepare and exhibit our knowledge in any subject.  Till date I exactly dunno what opinion my teachers used to have on me , my behavior and attitude... but I used to participate in each and every activity in those days... whether it is an elocution , essay writing , music competition or  dance performance I used to enroll myself for every thing.... and participated in all activities....  


That was the stage when I  learned different things of socialism.. That was when I was academically poor in social studies but not in being socialistic... I never expected to win a prize in everything I participated, but I just showed my enthu in all activities...


Apart from participating in different activities we friends used to have lot of fun ... combined studies.... birthday parties... spirit games (though I never played)... silly disputes... (at that time those were real serious fights but now on recollecting I cant stop laughing how we used to fight for silly things those daz... ) , lunch time chit chat, fighting with classmates for places during lunch time, sharing lunch boxes with friends and those exam times....... I still remember  showing my paper to every one and get scoldings from teachers for that... I was just an average student  but enjoyment was at top in those days.... Its really refreshing recollecting all those good old school days.... I miss those daz... but had loads of memories of those times to cherish 


love those days forever :) :) :) 

Heart Vs Mind

I alwaz Wonder.....
We feel about other people that they are -  not understanding us ... non co-operative , not listening to our words.... 
BUT ---  We alone are in confusion many times - what to choose..???
Heart and Mind 2 entities that rule our life .... Most of the times differ in opinion and leave us in confusion... 


Heart - center of all emotions -  You can have a feeling today and tomorrow it may change... change happens for many reasons... situations, behavior, circumstances, people, relations  etc..etc... 
Heart is very sensitive ... It gets hurt easily, It gets exited fast.. It gets emotional soon....


Mind has no Emotions. It Only knows fact that life is full of ups and downs...
Mind sticks on one decision or one feeling it never changes it... Some time the decision may be from heart,,, sometime it may not... 


Yet times, they both create confusion within me.......which leads to disturbance...... 
I am confused on whom to listen ??? 
I am Happy for the decisions I make from my Heart, I am even satisfied for the ones I make with my Mind... 




This Or That ..........
An Unanswered Question Running in my mind since long time....................

Mother's Day !!!

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY !!!!


Every Year - 
 I  greet my Great MOM on this day and make her day special...
 I  search for Special gift for her and Surprise her...
 I  think of many quotes, messages to let her know how special she is...
 I  would do many small things and make her realize she is Perfect....
 I do All I could do to make her so Special...


This Year .... Apart From All these ....


 I was engaged all the day


     looking after my little baby all the time,
     making him sleep comfortably,
     protecting him from this bloody summer days,
     laughing at his little games,
     enjoying his cute smile,
     busy trying to decode his code language :)
   
And Suddenly I realized ------------
   
     I was so Special because of my Kid
     I am complete with my baby ...
     I feel great to be represented as Aditya Bhagat's MOM ...
     I want to be Perfect in everything for my little Boy ...
     I experienced the pleasure of  Mother Hood ...
     Its a great feeling being a MOM.... Can't even Express it in words.... 
     
     I am Happy , Glad , On cloud 9 -10 -11......

Back with A Bang ...

Its been looongg.. since I have written something in my blog.. I have been busy with many things.. and there are many updates tooo.. We are back to India from singapore... its already more than 6 months we have been in India too... India is busy country than singapore and so I am .... :)


soooo... planning to strt my blog again with many world matters and all about my little kiddooo too...
hope will do so if I wont get busy again.....


BACK WITH A BANG !!!!