Sometimes ....

Sometimes ...
things are so hard and painful and let go of ...

sometimes ...
a question drives me crazy .. am I or the others are crazy ...

sometimes ...
the heart sees what is invisible to our eyes...

sometimes ...
I am so clever that I dont understand a single word of what I am saying ...

sometimes ...
I try to be real nice to friends , but they take it advantage ...

sometimes ...
I care alot for ppl, who doesn't even have a single thought  for me ...

sometimes ...
We stare so long at a door that is closing that we see too late the one that is open ...

sometimes ...
you have to giveup the fight and walk away, and move on ...

sometimes ...
It is those whose case is weak who make the most clamour...

sometimes ...
you're ahead, sometimes you are behind ...

sometimes ...
you just have to smile, pretend Everything's Okay, hold back the tear and just walk away ...

sometimes ...
I lie awake at night , and ask, ' where have I gone Wrong ? ' Then a voice says to me, " This is going to take more than one night." ...

sometimes ...
I think the better comes after the worse ...

sometimes ...
Courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, " I will Try again Tomorow" Courage doesnt always Roar ...

sometimes ...
you need to step outside, get some air, and remind yourself of who you are and who you want to be ...

sometimes ...
I think on whats stopping me ...

sometimes ...
I remind myself that it's Okay not to be Prefect ...

Sometimes ...
I think to disappear, but all I want is to be found ...

sometimes ...
we make things complicate when they really are simple ...

sometimes ...
you are at the top of the hill feeling good ...

sometimes ...
Its better not to think too much and leave things for time ...

sometimes ...
even to live is an act of courage ...

sometimes ............

Small Conversation With God !!!!

Small conversation with GOD

I have good tempo going on with god...
We talk a lot about world matters and here is a small part of our conversation , which we usually have with a sip of morning dew.


I Asked : "Good Morning Dear God !! Wish me a great day ahead"
God : Very Good Morning Dear Vasuki - Evryday is a great day and that great day is waiting for you already

I Asked : "Please make sure  I Dont hurt anyones feelings with my deeds or words"
God : U be good and people will recieve you the same as you are

I Asked : "Dont make me weak , Give me strength and courage to handle worst situations"
God : The Entire World you see is just a reflection of your thoughts my child , Go ahead with positive thoughts and high spirits, The World Is all Yours

I Asked :"Man is the greatest miracle and yet he acts so miserably,why so?."
God : he is still unaware that he is a Miracle

I Asked : "why are people filled with Ego and Hatred"
God : For they still haven't found the kindness of love

God Asked: "Vasuki Don't you Get angry at me for all the pain you suffered?"
Me:  "At some point yes I do get angry ,but in that pain you taught me the meaning of life ,gave me valuable lessons ,made me a self made person and thats what I am today.

God Asked:  " Do you really think i am so bad to be hated by so many people?".
Me:  " No god.its just that you were too kind and gave us lot of freedom to say anything to you "

God said " I am always there with the one who feels me inside them"
Me:  " Thank you god.If Only people understood it, Situations would be much much better."

 

God Asked : "Should I sendanother of my sons out there "
Me:    "No Father,its time you send them your daughter because -
           only a Mother can teach them good lessons,
           make them understand clearly,
           spread love and let all her children know the kindness of love
           and mostly a mother can reflect you for all your children."

There is also a poem which I would love to share because its simply beautiful and has a good feeling attached to it.....

I Believe.

I believe in the sun even though it is slow in rising.
I believe in rain though there are no clouds in the sky.
I believe in truth even though people lie.
I believe in peace though sometimes I am violent.
I believe in God even though sometimes he is silent.

Stages of busy life without missing fun in it !!!

Busy ...Busy ......Busy ...

I donno what am I doing , but  I can say strongly I have been busy all the day :p
And...... Day by Day as time passes I am getting more busy than earlier :D

During my job days in chennai, I was busy with heavy project schedule and weekend masti :) Weekdays busy busy work in office til late night, weekends busy busy timing with friends , chit chat with roomies till late night :) Busy with Fun .... enjoyed LIFE and learnt a LOT about LIFE during this busy phase of my life :)

During my married life in Singapore, days were more busier than before, We both have to go for job, new place, different food, have to prepare box for both early in morning and more than that , got to travel 45  min to and fro everyday for job.........uuuffhhh,, I still wonder how did we manage to do all things those days.. even weekends were busy as the day starts at 12- 1PM for us :) even if we woke up early it would for a date outside :) Life has become more busy with much FUN, surprises and excitement  in my new life :)

and nowwwwwwww, most loving phase of my life I would say,,, I am most busy than ever, and I am enjoying life at most than anytime...... Full time goes with my loving kid, his mischief...... How innocent these kids are.....Why cant we all ppl be such innocent for ever :p I doesn't even have time to think about job, and why to think lifez amazing like this,, why cant it be like this for some more time :)

Is life leading towards busyness all the time :D what ever time you see, its busy , busy and more busy :)
But by god grace all the time he was with me and made me enjoy the true color of life ........... Bottom line I want to say ,, however busy you are.......... dont ever miss fun in your life, enjoy life at max, coz you never know you have another chance or not :)

cheers buddies :)

??? ?? ?

What are we struggling every day for ??? 


Money.... the only thing that shapes a man ??? Money has greatest priorities in every ones lives.... for our every basic need, we must have money ... so man goes on striving hard to get that money as much as possible to make his family happy and provide all luxuries for his children.... 


but...............

In this process he may not realize that he is missing a lot that is more worthy.... His priority towards his family... its not just sufficient if you say I am struggling for my family and give them money... Is it not his responsibility to take care of his entire family and share love for them ???


Hmmm with increasing Schools and colleges Orphanage/old age home count also started going up..... children are in a position that they cant take responsibility of their parents and grand parents.. and these people will be first to talk about responsibilities, human values, ethics etc ... etc.. 

 Its my fate and bad luck  I come across such people... I really do hate them and wish I never again come across such people .... 


A well educated person , got married , had 2 kids... very busy with his work life... Moves places most of time as part of his job... When his wife asked just a few days of his busy life... he cant spend with her.... and his great opinion on that - "work chesthu inthintha sampadinchi isthunnanu , malli kalisi undali atu itu tippali ante ela andi... naake time ledu ...its so ridiculous...." Whats soo ridiculous if a wife asks his husband to spend few days happily with her.... then in that case why he married that innocent lady ..???  If at all I get a chance I feel like breaking his head into pieces then and there with hammer...... 


Another story of another great family... husband and wife does same business , both are house agents in Singapore... House rentals, selling a house etc... Morning at 8 if they leave their house ,, they come back  home late in  night.... they don't cook at home... they eat every day out side, both cover different locations so they wont even meet all the day....they had a son of about 8 years and he stays in India with his grand parents..... poor thing is he doesn't recognize his father if they visit India... and he doesn't even go to his mother affectionately....  what kind of a relation do they have??? Kid not recognizing his father and that gr8 father doesn't realize his biggest SIN... may be when he gt to knw what he missed in his busy LIFE... it will be too late for him..... 


My uncle is running an old age home in our place (ganapavaram - 3 kms from chilakaluripet). a 70 yrs old lady is daily waiting to hear from her children and grand children.... every day night she sleeps with a thought they would call her the next day ... all day she would be longing to talk to them and finally her day ends with despair .. she continues to wait but never curse her children or grand children for not calling her.. When I asked , with a smile she told me or perhaps she told to her self.. "they might be busy with their lives.. other wise they would have definitively called  me to talk" .... poor granny.... she had 3 daughters and her grand children all are well settled, but they doesn't have time to look after her and they made her stay in old age home like an orphan... What are they gaining with all the money they earn....  I had a talk with her for about an hour but she din't even utter a single negative word on her children who made her life like that... tht's a Mothers Heart... a Grand Parent's thought... 


Please .. please .. please be a bit responsible towards your FAMILY.. share just not money but your love for them .... 

Teenage ....

All along life at every stage we keep on thinking , this period is crucial for me to go heights in LIFE.

BUT - among all stages TEENAGE is the most crucial time for every person... teenage is filled with Joy, Excitement  Full Enthu, Confusions , assumptions....... This is the deciding time whether he goes heights or stand still...This is the most confusing stage where - he makes many assumptions for himself ... live in dreams about coming life.. At this stage if he can balance his life and take correct path  he can MASTER his life else.......the other way...


 Now a days we hear a lot..... a girl committed suicide in hostel room - girl and boy took poison and are in critical stage - girl killed by boy as she dint accept his love... many many many as such .....   Most of the ppl in news are teenagers....


should we die ourselves (committing suicide) if we fail in LOVE?? should we kill other person if she/he doesn't accept our love... Why don't we think about our parents and their love for us before doing such nasty acts??? Don't they love us.. Parents Love is Unconditional ,,,,without any expectations .. without any boundaries.... endless... If we think for a while about them may be we can avoid most of our mischievous deeds..... 


I am not against LOVE .. but I am just worried about innocent ppl who take hasty decisions for LOVE and spoil their life... Definitively LOVE is very important part in our LIVES..its highly impossible to survive without LOVE... But it doesn't mean we have to get LOVE from opposite sex and torture them to give us the same. We get LOVE from our parents, We learn to LOVE from them ... We get LOVE from our friends, We Learn to spread LOVE through them... We Get LOVE from our soul mate , we know it lasts for ever and ever..... 


There are many other things apart from LOVE which we need to achieve and accomplish... Please do not spoil your life with all stupid confusions on love and assuming you cant stay with out that single persons love..... Just think about your people when you take any hasty decision.... once you think about your people ,, their thought gives you strength and make you realize its not you but the other person is not lucky  to have you.... Even if you don't accept or you don't like , things will not stop once its decided to happen that way. Be positive, think in a better way and improve yourself to be a better person in society, then you need not go for anyone... everyone will follow you on your path.... 


THINK BETTER, BE THE BEST :) Make your Teenage a nice MEMORY but not a NIGHTMARE in your LIFE.... Stay HAPPY - stay COOL...


PS : I am not gr8 pandit to advise people. I just want to pen down my view... If you like it take it as advise else just pass away the article to someone else... thank u for your time :) 

Heart Vs Mind

I alwaz Wonder.....
We feel about other people that they are -  not understanding us ... non co-operative , not listening to our words.... 
BUT ---  We alone are in confusion many times - what to choose..???
Heart and Mind 2 entities that rule our life .... Most of the times differ in opinion and leave us in confusion... 


Heart - center of all emotions -  You can have a feeling today and tomorrow it may change... change happens for many reasons... situations, behavior, circumstances, people, relations  etc..etc... 
Heart is very sensitive ... It gets hurt easily, It gets exited fast.. It gets emotional soon....


Mind has no Emotions. It Only knows fact that life is full of ups and downs...
Mind sticks on one decision or one feeling it never changes it... Some time the decision may be from heart,,, sometime it may not... 


Yet times, they both create confusion within me.......which leads to disturbance...... 
I am confused on whom to listen ??? 
I am Happy for the decisions I make from my Heart, I am even satisfied for the ones I make with my Mind... 




This Or That ..........
An Unanswered Question Running in my mind since long time....................

Mother's Day !!!

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY !!!!


Every Year - 
 I  greet my Great MOM on this day and make her day special...
 I  search for Special gift for her and Surprise her...
 I  think of many quotes, messages to let her know how special she is...
 I  would do many small things and make her realize she is Perfect....
 I do All I could do to make her so Special...


This Year .... Apart From All these ....


 I was engaged all the day


     looking after my little baby all the time,
     making him sleep comfortably,
     protecting him from this bloody summer days,
     laughing at his little games,
     enjoying his cute smile,
     busy trying to decode his code language :)
   
And Suddenly I realized ------------
   
     I was so Special because of my Kid
     I am complete with my baby ...
     I feel great to be represented as Aditya Bhagat's MOM ...
     I want to be Perfect in everything for my little Boy ...
     I experienced the pleasure of  Mother Hood ...
     Its a great feeling being a MOM.... Can't even Express it in words.... 
     
     I am Happy , Glad , On cloud 9 -10 -11......

Belief - In - OneSelf ~~ SELF ESTEEM

The only Strength that drives you heights in Life is BELIEF IN YOURSELF- Having SELF ESTEEM.Every one will have their own opinion on self-esteem and the importnace of self-esteem.And yet the general understanding of the  meaning of self-esteem differs from one another. I wonder theres an association for self esteem .NASE - National Assosiation for Self Esteem.NASE believes self-esteem is "The experience of being capable of meeting life's challenges and being worthy of happiness."  The purpose of this organization is to fully integrate self-esteem into the fabric of American society so that every individual, no matter what their age or background, experiences personal worth and happiness.  Even The Art of Living Foundation , inspired by the programs of spiritual leader and humanitarian His Holiness Sri Sri Ravi Shankar offers programs to uncover the strength, peace, and joy that lie at the core of every human being.If you are a person with a healthy level of self-esteem, you will deal with the problems you encounter in a productive fashion without throughing yourself into unnecesary trouble and worries.



In each and evry step IN and OUT of our life we meet many challenges.Take on the challenge and you will be able to accomplish it only if you have will to make it.The Confidence in you makes you acomplish the challenge and prepares you to get ready for the next .Over time this adds up to a s
stronger self-image. We begin to believe we are worthy of happiness. That’s a very good place to be.

When we have low self-esteem, we do not have confidence in our ability to meet the challenges we face or the desire to undertake something that might appear difficult. Instead, we are fearful and unwilling to take the risks and steps necessary, even if we very much want to.Then we try to find out reasons to avoid it thinking about the risks it may cause and our dream begins to fizzle. When we walk away from our dreams , we will find ourselves stuck and feeling unfulfilled.

When you have interest to do something, to acheive some thing do not allow yourself to be gripped by low self esteem.By doing so , you are actually making the matter worse and moving away and far from your dreams.If intead , use positive thoughts as - "I can do this...", "Why Can't I do... " you will slowly move towards your dream.Taking small steps toward our dreams, we will build our self-esteem and move our lives toward a place of happiness and fulfillment.

TIPS
* make a list of 5 things you've wanted to do or learn. Number them in the order of difficulty. Start with the easiest item first and challenge yourself to complete them over time.

*Take up a new hobby , Buidling self esteem. having belief in you can make you do wonders. learn to dance or take singing lessons, learn to do painting, clay models, take a cooking lesson. The choices are endless and only limited to your imagination and your interest.

*join for Aerobics/Zym ,  do some excerise in home,  make habit of taking yoga classes early in the morning. A Person who is physically fit will also be mentally strong

 I have put down these points observing things around. I study people. I learn from them and I pen down my thoughts from what I have learnt...Think practically.. Take up an action that you have been avoiding since long time with positive affirmation and confidence, you will be able to acheive it for sure. Life seems Exiting , Enjoyble and Worth Living once you start Beliving in Yourself @ Evry time.

Going Home.......OR.......Leaving Home

I always hear people say wow.. Great.. Fantastic When they here about people staying in abroad.. I donno how to react.. I dont feel great living in Abroad, leaving all my people. I never fellt it was fantastic staying far and miles away from my home country...


Have a family gathering evry now and then just to njoy and refresh ourselves.. simple yet long chit chat with friends.. weekend parties with team mates... daily gossips with room mates... Moms sweet scoldings for not doing house hold things... dads grrrhhh for not taking utmost care for myself... stupid and mischevous enjoyment with brother... enjoying outings with cousins...   

I miss all this fun staying miles away from my people.. Everyday In Singapore I will be waiting for those 2 weeks stay in India with my people.. 2 weeks simply go off as 2 days.. and this time those days just flew off .. We realized we completed our 2 weeks only on last but one day when people reminded me about packing my luggage for return journey... We packed everything .. cloths.. things to take Singapore.. but still our minds are not set to leave our people and our place.. 


Though I started my new life as a wife in Singapore When Its time to return after vacation from India  I worry I am going home or leaving home.. :(  I Miss My Family ... I Miss My Country ... 

మంచి మాటలు

seeing good words ,  inspirational quotes, I get Inspired- may be its heavy word -  at least I get some strength for that time to accomplish unfinished things, to overcome my sadness, they make me think ...they make me do.... they make me feel confident... I just want to share some such quotes. I am not saying that I follow every such word I see but most often they give me relief and I just feel -  yes its sooo true..... :)


Miscellaneous -

• Life is to give not to take - You can experience immense pleasure in giving than in taking.It may be doing something for charity or spreading LOVE for your loved ones :)
• Believe in the Best and forget the Rest - What ever you do Just be confident on yourselves
• Life is too short to regret about anything  - sooo true
• jindagi ko jeo .. sirf jinda math raho - njoy this LIFE to max.. donno KAL HO NA HO.. its only today , now and this moment in your hands... make the best out of it :)
• Words are the best way to express our feelings..And if the words are framed in Quotes, they get a LIFE.. :)
• Try not to become a man of success but a man of value - you have certain PRIDE in being valued...
• Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true.
• There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so - think Good, do Good and Be Good :)
• A man sees in the world what he carries in his heart - Man today is what he thinks in past. what he thinks all along his life he becomes the same- so think good, think positive and you will become what you want... Strength lies with you not anywhere else...
• People don't care how much you know, until they know how much you care - Be caring to every one.... As you expect others to be caring towards you so the others do ...
• Be who you are in every situation - Express your true-self, don't hide your identity...
• It is great to be great,but it is greater to be human
• If u can't stand for something..u will fall for everything
• Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone Else's life 
• every morning you have two choices...
  either continue your sleep with dreaming...
  or wake up an chase your dreams...
• Be the change that you want to see in the world - Gandhi
• Forgive & Forget - Mantra for happiness
• Whatz Next - Mantra for growth
• Feel of contentment - Mantra for Peace
• Give unconditionally - Mantra for Love
• Anytime, any place do your best - Mantra for success

My favorite site and my favorite quotes are mostly from PRAVS WORLD - All are Best in it and some of  those best quotes -

• You are Born to Live. Don't Live because you are Born
• If you see a friend without a smile, give him one of yours
• Don't wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. Get started now.
• Always appreciate what we HAVE before time forces us to appreciate what we HAD.
• Life is very short. So break silly rules, Forgive quickly, Believe slowly, Love truly, Laugh loudly, Share happily and Never avoid any thing that makes you smile :)
• There are times in Life when we feel that all Doors are Closed for us. If this happens to you, remember that - Closed Doors doesn't mean that they are Locked!
• Life doesn't provide Warranties & Guarantees. It only provides possibilities & opportunities for those who dare to make best use of it
• A third person never creates any misunderstanding between two people. But a misunderstanding between two people creates space for a third person.
• Life: When you think you have got all answers, Life changes its questions.
• When it is Dark Enough you can see the stars. 
• I cried because I had no shoes; Till I saw a man with no feet. Life is full of blessings. Sometimes we're just to blind to see them
• If there was ever a time to dare, to make a difference, to embark on something worth doing, IT IS NOW.
• Instead of avoiding challenges, jump into them.Challenges come not to depress or get you down, but to master and to grow and to unfold your ability
   

These are just few of many .. Please feel free and share your favorite quotes through your comments.... Your own quotes/self sayings are also appreciated :)

Looong Laaasting .....

On a lazy sunny day - was going through  blogs....a post among them deals with relationship - bonding - bonding a strong relation etc etc -
many questions raised in my little brain -

What keep a relation Strong ???

What makes people hang on for each other  life long???

What makes a person feel other person can be his/her mate ???

In quoting a relation I pick up all kinds -


Wife - husband - How can one decide - this person suits me as Life Partner - As in movies do we also have any signs when we see him/her??? వాన పడటం , పూలు రాలటం , some unique sign ;)
Friends - What makes this bond of friend ship ... Some stay for a while .. Some stay for long time and some we can never think of leaving them.
relatives - though we can't chose them, the bondage between some ppl is beyond words...
siblings - నూర్గురు సోదరులున్న కురవుల కన్న పంచ పాండవులే మిన్న కదా !!!

what makes a relation strong and what breaks a relation ???

can we build a strong relation creating just good opinions with all lies - వంద అపద్దాలు చెప్పి ఐన ఒక పెళ్లి చెయ్యమన్నారు పెద్దలు .. కాని ఈ కాలం లో  -  girls are competing with boys in every field... Every one wants to be Independent ... everybody have their own opinions , impressions, likes and dislikes... - still this age old principle stay good...???
అదే పెద్దలు మరి దేనికైనా పునాది నమ్మకం అని కూడా చెప్పారు  కదా ... !!!


I believe second than first - Trust is the Standing pillar for any relation to stay strong for life long .. 
The day that is lost - you have lost the person even ....  
It doesn't matter you know the person for one year or 10 years .. but once you come to know that the person has given you false impressions hiding the true self -  not even a day it takes for that relation to break.
Share your thoughts with your loved ones - share your true thoughts - sharing and caring makes a strong bondage grow. Give a true impression of yours for any one you want to be with , you want to make friendship with , you want to share your life with . Don't ever create false impression... though you may succeed to gain other person, it will not stand strong in long run. Positive alwaz dominates. Truth alwaz excels.. If you truly needs other person try to understand the person and get along with them but not with false impressions... A good relationship between two people does depend on good understanding between them and it also depends on how better they avoid  misunderstandings...
When you build a relation with trust, it stays so strong that even if some small miss-understandings rise between people, it erases them  forgiving those small things.(when you do not have trust  - even small things seems to be big enough,  far from the scope to forgive the other person)
So...  its very simple to have life long relation ships ..Be true to yourself and to ones you want to be with.. Don't expect anything from others , alwaz try to give and spread love - u may be thinking I haven't mentioned LOVE which is basic thing - I just didn't mention as it is basic and common, without LOVE there is no point to discuss about Relationship at all :)

Mothers Day !!!

Happy Mother's Day, and many thanks to all moms who love children unconditionally.

We don't always make it easy on you, so thanks for hanging in there and supporting us through thick and thin.You have toiled, you have sacrificed, you have given more than we can ever imagine possible...

"The word mother in itself means so much to all of us. She is an epitome of love, understanding, and patience and not to forget perseverance. She is the one who nurtures us in her womb with utmost care and once we come into this world she is the one who teaches us to speak first words, walk first steps and think first thoughts. No wonder, these first few words, steps and thoughts lay the cornerstone for rest of our life. 

Mother is someone who gives everything to us and expects nothing in return. She is the one who gives us first lessons in sharing and caring. She is the one who keeps awake all night by our side when we are sick, she is the one who always knows what is going on inside us, and she is the one who forgives and forgets so easily. Whether you are 12, 32 or 42, you are always a kid for your mother. She is the one who always has something to tell us and she is the one who hears you patiently. We might often be too busy for our mom but she is never too busy for us. A mother teaches us to trust ourselves because she has immense faith in us. She is often the only one who believes in you and never loses hope even when you have lost all hope yourself"

Mother! In my dreams
You take me in your arms
To the land that is beautiful
And full of charms

All so peaceful
Smiles are given for free
Stream of love
Flowing all around me
Hope is not a word here
All is in reality
For this is a land
Of high moralities 

Green grass is sparkling
With tiny drop of dew
For in the land of dreams
It is always morning
And sky is blue!

I must awake now
In a new day
Reality is the game
That I must play!
I enjoyed my journey
In the dreamland
And what I enjoyed most
That I was in your hands

I will always love you !

Happy mother's day!

Thank You God ! You Made My Life ColorFul !!!

Thank you god, thank you for everything you have gifted me.

• You acknowledged your presence through my mother...who has loads of  patience to face the life...
• You made me 'born gifted' through my father - who is responsible for my every take... Acting on Everything which I need well before I reach that stage...
• To make my life lively and ever young..I have my brother. He makes me think my responsibilities towards everything...
• You gave me a beautiful childhood that any other child can envy of...I cherish each bit of it even now..
• You gave me the wisdom to study...without which I am nowhere...
• You helped me plan my career…This is what I’m today...
• You gave me support, confidence and encouragement to do things through my Big-brother
•  You sent across a life partner, my soul-mate who made my living easy and enjoyable. Such a Caring , Lovable and Responsible Person… What can I ask for more... 
• You gave me friends to count on at all times...
• You made me  to understand others, care everyone
• You gave me sense to know what is good and what is bad... 
• showed me alwaz right path to go...
• taught me value of people and my responsibilities through my lovable family...

There were disappointments, set backs,weak moments and tough times.But still I am content with my Life.. You made every set back a lesson for me to step forward...And now if I think.. I have lost nothing When I see to what I have gained...You gave me everything what I needed and everything that is good for me..
Thank You for Every thing and Thanks a lot for making my LIFE COLORFUL !!!

Some times I wonder.....

Priorities  keep on changing ......

things which are of most important during some period will be of least importance at other time...

things which are  least bothered suddenly grab all attention and sit at top priority....

And some times.. we ourselves feel very difficult to prioritize things as we think all are of equal importance...

I alwaz shuffle the priorities from top to bottom , does the same happens with all or Am I an exception to this case as in many ;)

I wonder some times  @  priorities changing with time....does this change  happens coz of situations or by choice ??

In most cases it happens coz of situations around.... but after all - we have to commit to make small sacrifices for the larger good of your life goals... :)

Alwaz remember -

Things which are most important should never fall at mercy of things which are of  least importance

so change of priorities do happen to fulfill the best from better :)

What would you choose??

Just read a blog - it goes like -

A : There comes a time when a man has to ask himself whether he wants a life of happiness or life of meaning/purpose - what's your choice??

B: I want Both

A : Can't be Done - two Very Different Paths

ahaaa- what to choose ??

its so simple to just say - but its complicated to decide on what we take

To be truly happy one must live in present leaving behind the past and never think/worry what will happen in future - to have life of meaning man must be ready to take burden of past and fear of future... 

We want to be extremely happy with all worldly things and we also need a purposeful life.(It's like - I want a job which gives me opportunities to prove my self - I want a job which is pretty cool, come what may I can't loose my joyful life - hammy)
I am truly confused after siting this -  I was stuck at this sort of dilemma in my life many times. But.....

What lies behind us(past) and what lies in-front of us (future) pales in comparison to What lies within us. So at this point what I can say is - be positive towards your thoughts - Positive alwaz dominates :) 

Think A While ......

Till now I haven't written anything serious in my blog. It's all about fun and  enjoyable life...

But I am so moved by certain incidents which makes me write this ....

We all having very luxurious life- nice job, on-site offers. sufficient (actually good) salary- laptops- music systems-mobiles- if we include everything over here  the space will not be sufficient. but still............. We Worry...... We seldom think of possessions we have and always think of what we don't have and start worrying about them..  

But...

Have you ever just given a thought about people who doesn't possess even half of what we have today-

- రెండు పూటలా సరిగ్గా భోజనం కూడా చెయ్యలేని వాళ్ళు చాల మంది ఉన్నారు

- పిల్లల్ని చదివించే ఆర్ధిక స్తోమత లేక ఒకళ్ళని చదివించి ఇంకొకళ్ళని కూలి పనికి పంపించే పరిస్థితి

- తన ఆరోగ్యం కన్నా కూడా కొడుకు చదువు ముఖ్యమని పగలు - రాత్రి పని చేసి చదివించినా ఆ తల్లికి ఆపరేషన్ కి కూడా  అతని దగ్గర డబ్బులు లేవు

- ఆరుగురు ఉండే కుటుంబం ఒకళ్ళు సంపాదించే దానితో ఎలా రోజు గడపాలి

 ఇటువంటి ఎన్నో సంఘటనలు - ఇంతకన్నా కూడా బాధాకరమైనవి మన చుట్టూనే జరుగుతున్నయ్యి ..

There are Many people living  in still worse situations leading their life with no hope. I am not against your luxuries. I am not against you ppl getting worldly things (even I am one among everyone) But --

Think a while about such people who are waiting for helping hands. we must be thankful for God for our lives today - we are in a position to give- we are in a position to help some people- we are in a position that we can brighten up some lives...  

"Motivation is what makes you start - Habit is what makes you continue to do it" 

Get into the habit of giving More than receiving.  "Best Way we can gain is through Service for Others"

Alwaz remember - leading a self satisfied - content life is worth living.  

P.S - Incidents which I have mentioned are not any imaginary situations. I have seen such people.

If you are ready to help  in any small way that you can - I can guide you to ppl who are waiting for your help. 

Please Think a While ........ 

Lost Somewhere In Deep Thoughts

A girl of age group around 20 - 25

Brought up by a loving family very affectionately

girl herself with high aims, aspirations, lots n lots of dreams about future ---

Lost herself somewhere in deep thoughts - on hearing about MARRIAGE

- Why should I get married so soon - I am doing good now

- Life is very much happy with Job-Family-Friends

- Tensed to accpet a stranger into her happy living Independent LIFE

- No Jeans - Do that - Dont do this - ఎన్ని conditions పెడతాడో - చిరాకు :(

- అమ్మ వాళ్ళ దగ్గరికి వెళ్ళాలన్న permissions :(

Slowly all these turns out into anxiety -

- How will I look like a bride - will I be beautiful in that attire

- How will be my life partner - మురారి లో మహేష్ బాబు లాగా ఉంటాడ ;)

- What should I talk to him when my parents allow us to have a small talk - can I ask him about his girlFriends??? ;)

Many Questions Start rolling on big 70 MM screen

- How can I decide some ' A' and 'the gr8 ME' are made for each other

- with a small conversation just for 30 - 60 min - will I be able to make my mind ???

(గంట సేపు మాట్లాడి మన జీవితం మొత్తం అతని చేతుల్లో పెట్టాలా ....... NO WAY )

- అతని గురించి ఏమి తెలియదు కదా !!!

But --- But --- But Finally One day she say YES to a totally Unknown person

(అమ్మాయి బుట్టలో dhaaammm ;))

And Then ----- Magic Starts -----

"I am getting married !!!! "- Full Excitement !!

- phone conversations with so called "Mr.A" Starts with 10 - 15 min

and continue long hours - even giving up nights precious Sleep :)

Slowly every thing has turned upside down

- Life seems more beautiful than ever before

- new dreams and more colorful (why didn't he come to my life before)

- The person who is a total stranger is the one about whom you know the most above all

- You are spl to him and he is more than everything for you :)

- Mr.A has turned to be the most lovable person in your life

- sharing and talking everything starting from birth till date

- Discussing everything and solving any controversies

(after all we have to compromise on some things when we love someone - older Version --- Me changing - NO WAY ;) )

అమ్మ దగ్గర వెళ్లి ఉండాలని ఉన్న కూడా - "అమ్మో మా వారు ఒక్కల్లె ఎలా ఉండగలరు "

he he :)

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GIRLS - Thoughts before marriage are obvious and every girl has to face the situation at some stage of her life - how will be my future with my partner - How to decide on one person that he is made for me and I am for him . etc .. etc etc.. many thought ..

But as the age old principle says - "Marriages are made in Heaven" - I believe it is sooo True

Some one is made for you some where - and you will meet him one day - Tht's Destiny

Things obviously happen to change after marriage - for that point many things keep on Changing in your life from time to time. Change is inevitable and remember those changes are for GOOD.

But still many things remain unchanged - You family - relationships - friends. You still have love of all your people , above all you now have the most lovable and caring person in your life , who will be with you in all times to - love - care - share - laugh - enjoy - make fun of each other -

support each other - guide each other - what not for everything till End of your LIFE :)

Stop worrying more and start dreaming about the wonderful LIFE awaiting for you ...

I am sure - You will LOVE it :)
"There was some day that changed me. It was the day I fell for him, not because of others or myself , but because of him being him and me being me."

Me-MySelf

like a sudden thunderbolt in sky - An idea had struck my little brain -----
(ఒక idea జీవితాన్నే మార్చేస్తుంది )
and here it is - I have started a BLOG ;)

Donno
What to write -
Where to start -
How to keep it more creative or innovative -
but still ---------

I am not a creative writer - So don't expect my blog to be rich - Hi-Fi -
BDW whts this HIFI - I have only heard about WI-FI ;) (Bad Joke :D)

It will be simple and friendly -
ooopps.. if it's simple and friendly then obviously it would be like me :)
(ఎక్కువ ఐన్దనుకుంటే మీకు ఎంత కావాలో అదే తీసుకోండి :) )
--- So Starting it right away with a brief intro about ME-MYSELF - VASUKI

Have you ever seen ----
A girl who looks simple with mixed blend of traditionla and modern thoughts
Who gives utmost important to her family above All.
who has friends to count on and are always close to heart :)
probably you have seen many amongst you and I AM THE ONE AMONG YOU :)
A Simple Common Girl - But I am not stupid - :)
childish yet times - may be its wrong to out 'yet times' - it can be most of the time :)
very adamant - will not listen to anyone if I am strong on what i think.
But - whatever I do - whatever I choose - However I live my life -
I do with my heart - it may be losing or gaining
I alwaz remember my mother saying -
"మన వాళ్ళ కోసం - నీకు కష్టం , బాధ కలిగించిన కూడా వేరే వాళ్ళకి నష్టం కలిగించ్నపుడు ఆ పని చెయ్యటం లో తప్పు లేదు తృప్తి తప్ప - నా వాళ్ళ కోసం చేస్తున్నాను అనే తృప్తి "
- I like it and I do it -

I take pleasure in Small things that happen in life
- phone conversation that last for hours with friend
-eat my favorite masala item on a pleasent evening
-Sitting alone listening to favorite music track
-long walk with loved ones
......... list continues .............
And dats how I lead a happy life

My VIEW - say Motto For Life
LIFE is not a Rose Bed or cake walk that you can't face any obstacles in it,
Take every obstale as an oppurtunity to reach high and grow strong,
Do that which you fear and the fear vanishes into thin air never to return.
There is nothing like bad memory or experience,
They are lesson for us to have wonderfull memories and gr8 Experience,
Every Experience has many positive elements and EVERY MOMENT IS A CELEBRATION
it's my own way to stay happy and enjoy every moment of this So calles L-I-F-E

And --------- MY LIFE IS COLORFULL----------