What are we struggling every day for ???
Money.... the only thing that shapes a man ??? Money has greatest priorities in every ones lives.... for our every basic need, we must have money ... so man goes on striving hard to get that money as much as possible to make his family happy and provide all luxuries for his children....
but...............
In this process he may not realize that he is missing a lot that is more worthy.... His priority towards his family... its not just sufficient if you say I am struggling for my family and give them money... Is it not his responsibility to take care of his entire family and share love for them ???
Hmmm with increasing Schools and colleges Orphanage/old age home count also started going up..... children are in a position that they cant take responsibility of their parents and grand parents.. and these people will be first to talk about responsibilities, human values, ethics etc ... etc..
Its my fate and bad luck I come across such people... I really do hate them and wish I never again come across such people ....
A well educated person , got married , had 2 kids... very busy with his work life... Moves places most of time as part of his job... When his wife asked just a few days of his busy life... he cant spend with her.... and his great opinion on that - "work chesthu inthintha sampadinchi isthunnanu , malli kalisi undali atu itu tippali ante ela andi... naake time ledu ...its so ridiculous...." Whats soo ridiculous if a wife asks his husband to spend few days happily with her.... then in that case why he married that innocent lady ..??? If at all I get a chance I feel like breaking his head into pieces then and there with hammer......
Another story of another great family... husband and wife does same business , both are house agents in Singapore... House rentals, selling a house etc... Morning at 8 if they leave their house ,, they come back home late in night.... they don't cook at home... they eat every day out side, both cover different locations so they wont even meet all the day....they had a son of about 8 years and he stays in India with his grand parents..... poor thing is he doesn't recognize his father if they visit India... and he doesn't even go to his mother affectionately.... what kind of a relation do they have??? Kid not recognizing his father and that gr8 father doesn't realize his biggest SIN... may be when he gt to knw what he missed in his busy LIFE... it will be too late for him.....
My uncle is running an old age home in our place (ganapavaram - 3 kms from chilakaluripet). a 70 yrs old lady is daily waiting to hear from her children and grand children.... every day night she sleeps with a thought they would call her the next day ... all day she would be longing to talk to them and finally her day ends with despair .. she continues to wait but never curse her children or grand children for not calling her.. When I asked , with a smile she told me or perhaps she told to her self.. "they might be busy with their lives.. other wise they would have definitively called me to talk" .... poor granny.... she had 3 daughters and her grand children all are well settled, but they doesn't have time to look after her and they made her stay in old age home like an orphan... What are they gaining with all the money they earn.... I had a talk with her for about an hour but she din't even utter a single negative word on her children who made her life like that... tht's a Mothers Heart... a Grand Parent's thought...
Please .. please .. please be a bit responsible towards your FAMILY.. share just not money but your love for them ....
Money.... the only thing that shapes a man ??? Money has greatest priorities in every ones lives.... for our every basic need, we must have money ... so man goes on striving hard to get that money as much as possible to make his family happy and provide all luxuries for his children....
but...............
In this process he may not realize that he is missing a lot that is more worthy.... His priority towards his family... its not just sufficient if you say I am struggling for my family and give them money... Is it not his responsibility to take care of his entire family and share love for them ???
Hmmm with increasing Schools and colleges Orphanage/old age home count also started going up..... children are in a position that they cant take responsibility of their parents and grand parents.. and these people will be first to talk about responsibilities, human values, ethics etc ... etc..
Its my fate and bad luck I come across such people... I really do hate them and wish I never again come across such people ....
A well educated person , got married , had 2 kids... very busy with his work life... Moves places most of time as part of his job... When his wife asked just a few days of his busy life... he cant spend with her.... and his great opinion on that - "work chesthu inthintha sampadinchi isthunnanu , malli kalisi undali atu itu tippali ante ela andi... naake time ledu ...its so ridiculous...." Whats soo ridiculous if a wife asks his husband to spend few days happily with her.... then in that case why he married that innocent lady ..??? If at all I get a chance I feel like breaking his head into pieces then and there with hammer......
Another story of another great family... husband and wife does same business , both are house agents in Singapore... House rentals, selling a house etc... Morning at 8 if they leave their house ,, they come back home late in night.... they don't cook at home... they eat every day out side, both cover different locations so they wont even meet all the day....they had a son of about 8 years and he stays in India with his grand parents..... poor thing is he doesn't recognize his father if they visit India... and he doesn't even go to his mother affectionately.... what kind of a relation do they have??? Kid not recognizing his father and that gr8 father doesn't realize his biggest SIN... may be when he gt to knw what he missed in his busy LIFE... it will be too late for him.....
My uncle is running an old age home in our place (ganapavaram - 3 kms from chilakaluripet). a 70 yrs old lady is daily waiting to hear from her children and grand children.... every day night she sleeps with a thought they would call her the next day ... all day she would be longing to talk to them and finally her day ends with despair .. she continues to wait but never curse her children or grand children for not calling her.. When I asked , with a smile she told me or perhaps she told to her self.. "they might be busy with their lives.. other wise they would have definitively called me to talk" .... poor granny.... she had 3 daughters and her grand children all are well settled, but they doesn't have time to look after her and they made her stay in old age home like an orphan... What are they gaining with all the money they earn.... I had a talk with her for about an hour but she din't even utter a single negative word on her children who made her life like that... tht's a Mothers Heart... a Grand Parent's thought...
Please .. please .. please be a bit responsible towards your FAMILY.. share just not money but your love for them ....
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Hi Vasuki garu...I appreciate the way u wrote...the most touching one was the 3rd story of a granny...if u can mail me her phone number @ praveen.mamidala@gmail.com i would be grateful to talk to her n share my feelings. thanks
ReplyDeleteSo nice of you praveen... we informed her children and they took her with them for a month stay.. right now she is with her children.... :)
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