I am forced to write a simple thought......I came across a beautiful article over internet...
"BEST THINGS ABOUT DAUGHTERS !!
On the first day of their marriage, wife and husband decided and agreed not to open the door for anyone!
On that day first, husband’s parents came to see them, they were behind the door.
Husband and the wife looked at each other, husband wanted to open the door, but since they had an agreement he did not open the door, so his parents left.
After a while the same day, wife’s parents came, wife and the husband looked at each other and even though they had an agreement, wife with tears on her eyes whispered, “I can’t do this to my parents”, and she opened the door.
Husband did not say anything, years passed and they had 4 boys and the fifth child was a girl. The father, planned a very big party for the new born baby girl, and he invited everyone over.
Later that night his wife asked him what was the reason for such a big celebration for this baby while we did not do it for the others!
The Husband simply replied, “because she is the one who will open the door for me!”"
such a nice post... indeed its one of the top posts in Face Book.
Reading this post made me happy thinking there are posts that elevate daughters, but on second note - Why she dint open the door for her husbands parents..?? After all they are also family... ?? She is a daughter... When a girl/women has the strong mind to leave her own house, her own name, her own existing identity and be a women of a man forever, she do has that soft tender heart to look after her in-laws as her second parents.
one way we are highlighting girls/women saying they are there for parents and they are no less to sons, but then why again pulling them down by saying daughter-in-laws dint open doors ..??
The story would be more meaningful if the father was happy that he got a chance to teach her daughter to open the door for her in-laws as well as she does for her parents, and look after them as her own people.
P.S: This just my own thought , not to hurt anyone or others feelings.... :)
BE GOOD - THINK GOOD - DO GOOD :)
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