Amma - Give Me A Part Of You !!

Right from the moment I gave birth to my first KID..... My world changed a lot... More Love, More responsible, More affection... More care... a little more in everything.....  and in that process I understood my MOM a little MORE and MORE ... 

She was the first person to hold my baby when I was still in Operation Theater.... Her energy and efforts were only things that put me up for the rest of my post delivery struggle due to C- Section.  Be it, cleaning, burping the baby, swinging him to sleep, calming him when he was crying, what not my mom did everything. I could not move due to anesthesia , she did everything for my baby. I used to fall asleep at times ,  she never disturbed me from my sleep. she used to stay awake all night with my son to look after him.  She just stayed with me and my kid all the time in hospital, while managing things at home were not so easy... Miraculously she din't show any sign of FATIGUE or  RESTLESSNESS ...  I wonder from where did she get all of that strength from ..... I could only say - MOM please give me a part of your STRENGTH !!

There are time when my kids do so much fuss to eat. At time I feel like screaming up and later I give up everything and feel like crying... Then I remember my mom.... She used to do so many things ... with so much patience..... I rarely saw her crying out of helplessness.... Such times I feel like saying - MOM give me part of your Patience !!

There are moments when I am amazed to see my kids grow up soo fast...I am scared if I would be good enough for them - social, emotional, bonding and many others..  I worry if I would be good enough in upbringing them as a responsible citizens for country ... I fear if I would be nice to them in their journey ... I worry if I could support them in all situations they face in their struggle to stand up firm in any kind of situation... And then I think of my mom, She is always there and we never looked for anything else... she is the reason for what I am today ... Till date she has supported me in everything that I have taken up and helped in all through ups and downs I have faced... I want to say - MOM.... Give me part of your Confidence  !!

At times I am scared about what to do when life shows up some unexpected painful challenges and experiences . I remember my mom who stood like a rock throughout and fought strong in such situations - may me major or minor . Thinking of her I really really wonder, how she handled her own  fears... Maa , I really tell you I couldn't have handled any such things the way you did  .... You stood Strong and showed us the right path. I just want to tell you - MOM.... Give me part of your Courage !!

Everything you did and still does makes me move forward with confidence.You set an example for me... You are my role model. I don't feel guilt when your son-in-law asks me to , learn from you and do chores like you .. I take pride in that.. I knew you are the best... My MOM is the best ...And so ... I want to say -

MOM.... GIVE ME A PART OF YOU !!

P.S : Idea from another article,changed as per my own thoughts for my MOM. 

Give A Thought..!!

 I am forced to write a simple thought......I came across a beautiful article over internet...

"BEST THINGS ABOUT DAUGHTERS !!

          On the first day of their marriage, wife and husband decided and agreed not to open the door for anyone!

On that day first, husband’s parents came to see them, they were behind the door.

Husband and the wife looked at each other, husband wanted to open the door, but since they had an agreement he did not open the door, so his parents left.

After a while the same day, wife’s parents came, wife and the husband looked at each other and even though they had an agreement, wife with tears on her eyes whispered, “I can’t do this to my parents”, and she opened the door.

Husband did not say anything, years passed and they had 4 boys and the fifth child was a girl. The father, planned a very big party for the new born baby girl, and he invited everyone over.

Later that night his wife asked him what was the reason for such a big celebration for this baby while we did not do it for the others!

The Husband simply replied, “because she is the one who will open the door for me!”" 

such a nice post... indeed its one of the top posts in Face Book.

Reading this post made me happy thinking there are posts that elevate daughters, but on second note - Why she dint open the door for her husbands parents..?? After all they are also family... ?? She is a daughter...  When a girl/women has the strong mind to leave her own house, her own name, her own existing identity and be a women of a man forever, she do has that soft tender heart to look after her in-laws as her second parents. 

  one way we are highlighting girls/women saying they are there for parents and they are no less to sons, but then why again pulling them down by saying daughter-in-laws dint open doors ..??

The story would be more meaningful if the father was happy that he got a chance to teach her daughter to open the door for her in-laws as well as she does for her parents, and look after them as her own people. 

P.S: This just my own thought , not to hurt anyone or others feelings.... :)

BE GOOD  - THINK GOOD - DO GOOD :)